A student wanted to sit with his friend during a class work period. Teacher asked the student if he thought he could be a helper to his friend rather than distract him from completing his work. The teacher notices that the two students are off task.
Strategies summary
Asks question to get student to evaluate the situation rather than stating her observation: “Are you OK here?”
Elicits buy-in for desired behavior by giving a choice/ consequence: “If this is too difficult, I can …”
Student defines desired behavior: “What does a helper do?”
Sets up student accountability: “I will be watching.”